On this week’s Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann brings a fresh twist to Thanksgiving—inviting listeners to shift from “Thanksgiving” to “Thanks Taking.” While most of us know the value of showing gratitude, this episode dives deeper into the art of actually receiving it. Without learning how to accept thanks and praise, we miss out on growing our confidence and rob others of the joy that comes from recognizing our efforts.

The Power of Accepting Compliments

If someone gives you a compliment, do you brush it off or let it land? As Coach Thomann explains, many people deflect kind words out of habit or self-doubt, unintentionally shortchanging themselves and others. The science is clear: When you accept thanks with a sincere “thank you,” you help build a culture of positivity—at work, at home, or on your team. Accepting gratitude doesn’t just lift you up; it also rewards the giver, creating a ripple effect of confidence and connection.

Giving Yourself Credit (And Why It Matters)

It’s not just about what you tell others—it’s also about what you say to yourself. Self-acknowledgment is vital for mental toughness and resilience. Noticing and celebrating your own wins, no matter how small, trains your brain to repeat positive behaviors and builds evidence-based confidence. Journaling your daily efforts or speaking affirmations out loud turns gratitude inward, making it easier to persevere when challenges arise.

The Science of Gratitude: Boosting Mood and Resilience

Expressing genuine thanks to others doesn’t just make the world better—it makes you better. Regular gratitude practices are proven to enhance mood, resilience, and even physical health. Coach Thomann emphasizes that gratitude helps rewire your mindset toward positivity, helping you notice opportunities rather than just problems. Every “thank you” you give or receive strengthens your mental mettle and creates a ripple in your environment—team, family, or organization.

Key Takeaways: The "Thanks Taking" Challenge

  • Don’t deflect. Accept compliments fully and recognize their impact.
  • Practice self-gratitude by celebrating your own growth and resilience.
  • Share appreciation often—gratitude multiplies when spread.

As you gather this week, practice being a “thanks taker.” Accept gratitude, give yourself credit, and express thanks generously to others. It’s a simple tool, but one with lifelong benefits for your mindset, relationships, and well-being.

For more insights on mindset, confidence, and transformational coaching, subscribe to The Mental Mettle Podcast. Want to develop a gratitude-powered, resilient mindset for your team or yourself? Contact Coach Thomann for personal coaching and workshops.

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